Now that you've had time to take stock of what you are tolerating I find it helpful to to think through what I want to do about it.  Really there are only four things you can do.

1. Do/Fix It -- Don't keep waiting for a 'perfect' time just take care of ‘it’ now.  
2. Delegate It -- Perhaps ‘it’ is not the best use of your time.  Can someone else take this off your plate?  For me this is the hardest.  Somehow I stubbornly think I can do it all when some of the things I'm tolerating can be removed if I'd simply delegate and give myself grace in the process.
3. Dump It -- Sometimes it's best to accept ‘it’, let it go, and move on.  
4. Dedicate Time to Eliminating It -- If 'it' can be eliminated do you want create a new ritual or habit to change it?  That decision makes all the difference.  

Look at the list of what you are tolerating and highlight the things that you can do/fix or delegate.  Then make a list of what you are choosing to let go of and dump.  Celebrate it.  Breathe deeply and ...